EPILOGUE: FIFTY YEARS
LATER...
My name is Marcel Braitstein, or Motl Brajtsztajn,
or Marc Breedsteen, or Branstein, Brightstone, Bratsien, or any variation thereof. I will
leave myself the option to deny or to acknowledge the veracity of any of those, depending
on the situation. You never know! Better to play it safe and have the possibility of
choice. Given the right circumstance, I might even revert to Marquet, maiden name of my
Godmother, which was the name I bore during the war, when I was hidden in Belgium by
mile Lebeau, his wife Henriette, and their daughter Lucienne. What's in a name after
all? It is just an outer garment, a means of distinguishing yourself in a group of people.
But who am I really? As a child, I knew that I was
Jewish, but it did not signify anything special until the day that I had to start wearing
the yellow star. That badge transformed me into an easily identified target for the
world's contempt and hatred. I became overnight a pariah of humankind, banished to an
interior exile and condemned to death.
When I was lucky enough to be welcomed into a
"normal" family, meaning a Christian one, I embraced that faith with the same
desperation that a drowning man might show at the sudden appearance of a life jacket on a
stormy sea. I had found what I was looking for most at that time: a feeling of safety.
Given the right circumstances, a seven year old boy grows up fast and learns quickly to to
do whatever is needed to survive.
When we were liberated, I was so convinced that I
was Christian that I wanted to become a missionary. It was a shock to find myself suddenly
deprived of my camouflage. When I went back to live with my grandparents, I felt once more
vulnerable because they were openly and visibly Jewish. I was aware that I was in danger
of death or persecution, because the war was not over and could have turned out badly for
the Allies. Deep inside me, I knew my true identity, but because of my terror at the
possible consequences, I did what I could to deny it, even when the war finished and the
danger for my safety had passed.
When I turned thirteen, even though I had finally
admitted to myself that I was not Christian, I refused, in spite of my grandfather's
insistence, to have my Bar-Mitzvah and thereby to affirm my Jewish identity.
Today, I see myself first as a human being, equal
to all others. Even though I do not practice the religion, I know that I was born a Jew
and that I will die as one. Even if I wanted to forget that fact, which I don't, there are
still enough anti-Semites in this world to make sure that I could never do so; and it is
simply realistic to be aware that the evil of bigotry can raise its ugly head anywhere,
and when least expected. One should therefore be prepared to fight it, either opposing it
in every possible way, or by evasive action. Do whatever seems most likely to succeed
under a particular circumstance. And if need be, drop everything at a moment's notice and
just go, disguise, escape....
I can smile at my own fears and think of them as
being totally irrational, in Canada, half a century after the end of World War II. On the
whole, I feel secure in my everyday existence but I have to admit that deep down there
still lurks a certain doubt as to my safety, a lingering feeling that one can never be
quite sure of what turn History may suddenly take.
Some would say that I am paranoid, but it is hard
at times to feel safe when one looks at the general state of our planet.
The yellowing newspapers that I saved so carefully
in 1945 are now slowly crumbling away, like the the false promises that they held.
"Peace forever in a better world" had been a beautiful thought, and one that I
wanted desperately to believe, but since the day that I reverently stored away those
written words, until this very moment, there have always been wars going on somewhere on
this planet of ours -- colonial wars, wars of national liberation, cold and hot
ideological wars, civil wars, tribal wars....
As I am writing this, thousands upon thousands of
people in Africa, in Asia, as well as in Europe, are being slaughtered for the sole reason
of being of the "wrong" tribe, or of the "wrong" religion or ethnic
group. The images of these events that are shown every day on television stoke memories
that I had tried to bury deeply and bring them once more to the surface.
In addition, I read daily about some occurrence or
other that drags me back unwillingly to an earlier time: Jewish cemeteries being
desecrated or schools daubed with swastikas, neo-Nazis in Germany killing
"foreigners" while the police seem unable to stop them, a neo-Fascist minister
of culture in the newly-elected government of Italy, a Japanese government minister who
denies that his country had ever been an aggressor or that there ever was such a thing as
the rape of Nanking....
And to top it all off, we have the Holocaust
deniers. As the survivors slowly pass on, the deniers become more visible and always seem
to be given a platform for their fabrications, no matter how absurd and far-fetched their
hypothesis might be. That they should be found within racist organizations is of course to
be expected, but they also appear in the most unlikely places, such as among elementary
school teachers or even the respectable world of higher academia.
My childhood fears were fortunately tempered by
subsequent experiences where I have witnessed or heard about individuals, from every walk
of life and in every country, who have risked their lives and those of their families to
help others. At a time of brutal and repressive dictatorships, there were many instances
of courageous people who deserve to be honoured with the title of Righteous Gentile. They
were not only from countries that were themselves under occupation, such as Belgium,
France, Holland, Denmark and many others, but also from among the aggressors, Germany and
Japan.
Some acted out of religious belief, others out of
compassion and humanity. These individuals, many of whom are still anonymous to this day,
compensate for the all too common indifference or the downright collaboration of the rest.
While I was struggling with my identity problems, I
became aware that I was suffering from a feeling of guilt although I could not quite
pin-point its source. There were probably a number of reasons for it.
I could say perhaps, tongue in cheek, that the
first one comes from the first days of the invasion, when I was convinced that Hitler had
come to get me because I had not eaten all my supper! But among the more serious reasons,
a few come to mind. The death of my mother, for example. I must have done something
terrible! How else could I explain her abandoning me, just like that, without a word? I
heard, of course, the explanations that my father gave, but at age five or six, one
already knows that grown-ups don't always tell the truth. And what other atrocious crime
must I have committed, except the one of being born Jewish, for my father to abandon me in
his turn shortly later?
Once I was Christian, I was happy to find myself in
a world where one was guilty only of the sins committed, rather than the hereditary ones.
But I am now aware that I must have felt , unconsciously, a feeling of guilt for having
abandoned my ancestral faith and a God that could not protect me, for one that promised
more safety and security. At Liberation, torn between my conflicting identities, I felt
once again guilty when I abandoned the world of Christianity that had given me such good
protection.
Of all the possible reasons to explain my guilty
feeling, I am convinced that the main one is the fact of having survived when so many
others have disappeared into the night and fog. Why was I hidden and saved? Why me
and not the others? Did I take the place of someone more worthy than me?
After the war I found myself among children who had
all lived through the same wrenching questionings and feelings of guilt. We would meet
once or twice a week. By what I now understand as a tacit agreement, we rarely spoke of
our war experiences. When we were not busy playing games or being involved in various
sports activities -- an excellent form of therapy without any doubt -- our counsellors
would speak to us about a promising future where there would be no discrimination, but
this future was in our own hands. It was up to us to fight for it.
It was at that time that I resolved the ambiguity
of my religious identity as well as my desire to rid myself of my guilt: I rejected all
forms of religion to become a Marxist. At age fifteen, when most young people thought only
of having fun, I decided to become a militant revolutionary to create an ideal world. It
was my own way of justifying my survival of the Holocaust.
A year later, when the Cold War risked becoming a
Hot War at any moment, I left Belgium with my grandparents. Convinced that with an ocean
between us and Europe, there was no danger of finding ourselves once more on a
battlefield, we emigrated to Canada and settled down in Montreal.
I was pleasantly surprised to find myself in a
large North-American city where one could speak French. What disappointment though when I
learned that I could not pursue my studies in that language because I was not Catholic.
Once more, even though I thought I had left all that sort of thing in the Old World, I had
to deal with my religious origin in spite of the fact that I had rejected all forms of
religion.
After High School -- an English Protestant one -- I
had to decide what to do with my life. It is not easy to know how one finds one's
vocation. It was by process of elimination that I ended up choosing the visual arts, and
sculpture in particular. To create, to uncover, to convince, to enchant, to change the
world, all those while finding satisfaction in the process of artistic activity, what
could be more desirable? At times I had wanted to be an engineer or a writer, but my
weakness in math on the one hand, and a disquieting feeling that it might be dangerous to
put one's thoughts in print on the other, directed my focus to the visual arts.
Photography? Film making? Painting?
As far as I can remember, sculpture was for me a
natural means of expression. And as strange as it may seem, the war gave me an esthetic
stimulation, an imagery and symbols that allowed me to give form to my ideas. It is with
feelings of terror as well as fascination that I remember the fragmented silhouettes of
bombed houses, and the sight of human bodies, either broken and wounded, or full of
strength as they emerged glistening with black sweat from the mines. The latter have
always merged in my mind with the bronze world of Rodin figures.
When I felt the deep need to express my ideas
through sculpture, I was convinced that I would be able to use that medium to change the
world. Having suffered injustice, and still bearing some of the fears of a hunted child, I
could not remain indifferent to the plight of all those who were in similar conditions. I
was affected by what is known in German as "weltschmertz", pain for the
ills of the world. When I embraced the Marxist credo, I had done so almost fanatically,
convinced that the planet would become a paradise on earth. I was brutally brought back to
reality after the horrific revelations of the Twentieth Congress of the Communist Party in
Moscow. I did not lose, however, my desire to do something for society.
And so I started to think of myself as an "artiste
engagČ". The subject matter of my work, as well as the formal treatment,
expressed concerns and ideas about destruction, hatred, and the human condition in
general.
I did not want to speak only of my own involvement
as a Jewish survivor or as a hidden child. My aim was for a more universal meaning,
because I sincerely believed that the Jewish experience, in spite of its very particular
ordeal, had to have a higher significance and a message for all Humankind.
I was not the only one to reflect upon these
subjects, but like many of my contemporaries, I realized that our influence on society was
negligible, and that painting and sculpture have a very limited impact. In any case, one
usually ends up preaching to the converted.
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A half a century has elapsed since the events that
I related in this story.
During the D-Day celebrations, I have to admit that
I was very moved. Even though I was not a participant but a mere child in a small town of
occupied Europe, I feel very emotional about that event. It was for me the beginning of
hope that the nightmare might come to an end, and I shudder in retrospect as to what would
have happened if the Allied landing had failed. Would the Nazis have managed to develop
nuclear weapons before the Americans? That possibility is too frightening to even
contemplate.
There have been other moving remembrances, the
fiftieth anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz, the end of the war in Europe, the
capitulation of Japan which marked the end of the second world war.
As a child, I was privileged to escape the fate of
millions of victims. During the fifty years that followed, I was still lucky, being able
to lead my life in a country both prosperous and at peace. After my studies at L'cole
des beaux-arts de MontrČal, I pursued a successful career as a sculptor and professor,
and I had the satisfaction to see my works acquired by numerous public as well as private
collections. But the greatest happiness of all was to create a family, to see my children
grow up to become women both intelligent and aware of the world's ills.
None of this good life would have happened without
the selfless individuals like the Lebeau family, the resistance fighters, the soldiers in
the Allied forces. Many of them paid with their lives so that I and others like me could
live out the span of life which was allotted to them by Fate. To all of those heroes, sung
and unsung, all I can say is thank you.
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